Pinklebows, even though my menagerie generally is compatible with each other, I too have a couple of cats who refuses to get along with the remanider of the pride. I am seriously thinking of re-homing them. I am speaking of especially Mopsy, an all black, very long furred lovable and friendly lap cat. She needs to be in a one-cat only household. When I first rescued her off the streets, I thought she would eventually begin to integrate with the others, but I have had her for about 6 months now, and nothing has changed. She still hisses and bats the others around espcially at meal time. She still causes problems with Otis and sometimes Fawn, because of her independent nature.

I am relating this because of your situation. It could be that you have a pair of cats who will not get along with each other. I really do not know what to do, except perhaps, get another furkid to see how Bailey accepts him/her. Perhaps someone else out there may have a better solution to your problem.

...........wayne