We can't afford the wedding anymore. Rob's mom thought it would a great idea to make up pay rent for $500.00/month. & I'm the only one working. their arn't any jobs here yet. we can't even pay our bills any more, nor go out, nor buy food for any of my pets. I have to get $$ from my mom & she's super poor & in serious debt, thats why she has to sell the house & live in a crapy small apt.