I didn't mean anything bad. It's just that by what you said, I got the impression that you said that anorexia isn't something you choose.
Its not something you just wake up one morning and think 'Oh..I don't want to eat today' like thats stupid..no one in the right mind would do that. Its an illness that ppl just don't get.
By this statement. Because this is what my friend did. She had the choice to eat, and she said she didn't want to. Now, because she's used to starving herself, she doesn't feel hunger. Because she's been doing this for so long, she can't start eating and be fine again. It's messed with her body too much.

You made it sound like your sister didn't do this to herself. That's why I said she had no choice. But my friend did this to herself on purpose.

That's all that I meant...