I can certainly understand your anger, and yes
we all seem to have friends or family members who
have no clue when it comes to caring for a animal.
You can talk youself blue in the face, but I wish
everyone who adopts or buys an animal would
have to watch a tape first on the care, cost and
attachment these animals have for us and
what happenes when you don't take care of them
or give them the love they require.
You can vent all you want.
I certainly understand your frustrations.