Originally posted by IttyBittyKitty

Don't let your fiance boss you about. Don't let him tell you to give away your pet. Personally, if it were me, I wouldn't marry someone who forced me to give up my cat. It means more than simply my love for my cat - you have a responsibility for that pet. If he cannot understand that, I would be questioning his moral integrity. But, that's just me.
His fiance is a her

I sent him to Pet Talk to help him with this issue. We frequent the same tech site and the advice there was less than stellar. I told him that all of you could offer much better advice and I'm glad you could give him some pointers.

I haven't seen an update in either thread (here or there), but hopefully things worked out for him and the cat.