I totally agree with the last message. It took my cat Bailey (another female Tortie) a very long time to accept my over-friendly, very boisterous Tuxedo Ziggy. But eventually he did manage to win his way into her heart - Even though they still have their occassional tussles (More to show off to my husband - their top cat!!- than anything else!), they are often found to be cuddling up asleep together or grooming each other. They also seem a lot closer when theyve been on hols to the cattery.

So please, don't give up - Persevere and just give them both space and time. Good luck!