The Silent Legacy video isn't about anyone in particular, it's about acceptance...I think you'll like it.

I always knew even as a little girl I was gay. But, I have a very close minded family, so to show them I was "normal" (among other reasons) I left with a jerk of a guy, had 3 kids and married him. Well, now I am happy I have my kids of course, but I dumped the jerk. Not that all men are jerks, but I am just saying I made a mistake just to make others happy.

Even though to this day I call myself "gay" or "lesbian" I guess technicaly I am bi-sexual. I am partnered with a man right now. But he understands my need for balance, and I do have relationships with women, too.
For me personally, it's not about finding the right man or woman, it's about finding the right person. I can honestly say my man-partner is the only man I will ever be with again. If we were to split, I would be 100% lesbian again. LOL, I tease him and say, "How does it feel to know you are the only man that can keep me straight?" He says "Darn good!!!"


Crystal