Tara,
when I first began pilling Tex, he would pick up on my frustrations. This did nothing to the situation. So, first, you need to look at your self in the mirror, and say, " I am not going to get upset. My kitty needs these meds, and it is for his own good". Then, don't get upset. I know you can do it.

As to the pilling, I pick the exact same spot. I always let Tex see the pill first, and I think "you know you need this"...and it is nearly an effortless task anymore. I pill him twice a day, and have for awhile. Now, I will admit, Tex is a very good boy, and very smart, and I have to make sure he doesn't cheek it and spit it out..which he has done.

I read once that kitties don't like to be suprised with the meds...it makes trust an issue. As said else where on the thred....lots of love and praise afterwards...

Good luck, and stay calm. Ozzie depends on you.