Captain, Jo is such a pretty pink color.
Do you live close enough to Miss Meow to visit her? She has a very PINK kitchen that Jo would look perfect in!

Also, how do your dogs like her? Do they get along with her?
About her loving your husband best, my female parakeet is in love with my husband so I know how you feel about being not much more than the cage cleaner, food provider etc.
Maybe it is a girl bird thing to like men better than women?