I'm sorry to hear about this Naomi, I can't imagine if I had to be the one making the decision.
I'm sorry I don't have any questions for you to ask, I think everyone else has covered any that I thought of.
All of us here are hoping for the best outcome for your apt. on Friday. Know we will be here for you no matter what you decide.
{{{{{Hugs from us to you & Bassett}}}}}