At first I was thinking let her see pics, but the more I think about it I don't think that is a good idea either.
Lolly definatley does not need to see her at all. I don't necessarily agree with that this lady didn't love her, I just think she was in a rock and a hard place and couldn't do anything about it, kinda like my Kylie's situation, but Kylie sees her old mamma occassionally, with no ill effects, but she does fear the boyfriend when he came over once when I was on vacation and Jodi fed her for me. But Kylie wasn't traumatized like Lolly was. I have never been in an abusive situation either so I can' speak for Lolly's former owner.
It would be different I think if she wasn't abused and had to give her up b/c of an illness or something, but I agree don't let her see her. Tell your supervisor its not a good idea and she should know better(don't tell her that!!)
My sister's dog, Scooby Doo, is just over 2 1/2, she got him in June before I got Shaianne and he was 6 mos old. To this day he still submissive pees, is absolutely TERRIFIED of my dad, and my dad has never done anything to him, he was scared of him the first day he saw him. Otherwise, he loves people men and women and children alike, except my dad. When my dad walks into the room you can see the look on his face saying "Where do I go" It was especially challenging this past weekend when my parents watched my nephews and Scoony and Scooby peed 7times on my mom's carpet. Now remember my mother, God love her, doesn't get excited about having a dog in the house, she didn't mind Shai b/c she knew her manners and instintively knew what I wanted. She also has said that my new puppy isn't allowed on her carpet until she is potty trained. Which is fine its her carpet!! My poor mom was sooooooo stressed out. I told her the next time they go away which is like once a year, I said I would take Scooby to my house and my mom said "No, this is the least I can do, I don't like it, but I can deal with it."
I tried to argue but she wouldn't have it.
She didn't say anything to my sis about his accidents, but I think she should have b/c he could have an infection or something.
I also think that this poor dog had the h*ll beat out of him as a puppy which is why is soooo afraid of my dad and the whole peeing thing. My nickname for the poor thing is the Peeing Machine!!
Well I digress, I don't think that Lolly should see her former owner!!! She is in the best situation now and is healing very slowing and you don't want any regressions!!!
Keep us posted!