Rachel, Thanks for setting me straight on your post, It's nice to have you in my boat too! I am also shocked that the supervisor is suggesting this. I would not give this woman a second of the day or a second thought! Lolly has no ties with her now and that's the way it should stay! And I wouldn't feel bad or like I was being mean about it either. I would look at it as protecting my heart and my baby. After all you opened your heart to give Lolly a new and wonderful home and that's more than Lolly got in the old home! YOU OWE HER NOTHING!!!!!