Aly, I agree with everyone here 100% That woman may have loved Lolly but she has no right whatsoever to ever see her again. In my opinin, she does not deserve to since she let her get abused all those years and didn't put a stop to it. Becides it will probablly confuse Lolly, as even though Lolly was abused, I am sure she will still love that woman, and it may be hard for Lolly to see her past family again. Pictures are good, email is good, but please don't feel that you need to let Lolly associate with that woman again. That just dosen't sound healthy to me. I do understand your mixed feelings though. It is a very confusing situation to be in.