Aly,
What a strange situation to be put into...
Your idea of offering a few pictures,but
only thinking about a visit is very sensible.
Most abusers use abuse, or threats of abuse
of family pets ,to cower everyone else in the
family.This woman might have lived thru her
own 'private hell' for those 5 years.
If your supervisor knows her, ask what kind
of person they think she is.
Lolly is your baby now,and this woman(good or
bad) has no rights to her at all. Liz

[ October 31, 2001: Message edited by: lizbud ]

[ October 31, 2001: Message edited by: lizbud ]