Lolly doesn't need to see this person. If it doesn't frighten her, it will, at the very least, confuse her. This woman gave up her rights to Lolly. I agree with Logan - you 'adopted' Lolly, case closed.
This woman can deal with a few pictures but doesn't really need anything else.

Lolly is your baby girl now - don't let anyone pressure you into thinking this woman has any right to her.