i agree.. a dog is there to be loved and theres nothing more that i hate than an unfairly treated dog especially a puppy.. tell her what you feel.. say look i know you are getting a puppy but you need to understand that puppies are going to rip up ur couch {learned that the hard way} and bite and have acciedents in the house.. so you have to agree even if this happens not to be mean or cruel to the animal in any way.. saying it this way is not being mean at all simply just putting it in a nicer point of view.. im good at problems