Mitzi was feral before she came to me and she goes back and forth with the fear and hiding. She was getting real friendly before Mishi came aboard; his arrival put a setback on our relationship, but I've done many of the suggestions listed here. She's finally coming around. In fact this morning she woke me up by playing with my feet under the covers. He's being the big bully-wimp, stalking her and then when he spots her, he gazes at her in awe and wonder at her beauty (the appropriate response IMHO ) and then growls, hisses and runs away when she spots him. She looks at him as if to say "you don't know what you're missing, big guy." What a pair! It's a VERY slow process. Don't get discouraged (as I did earlier this week). The PT message boards are helping me alot! Thanks everyone!