Tanya, Even I was hesitant about taking in a fully grown dog, feeling that I wouldn't be able to bond like I could with a puppy, but I and many people on this board have found out that not only is that not the case, but it is often these "second hand" dogs that are the most appreciative and loyal companions. They seem to know they have been rescued and do not take anything you do for granted like some other dogs do (and I'll save her the embarrassment of mentioning her name) who were raised up from a pup. I also for the longest time had the erroneous idea that the dogs in the shelters where "rejects" with major behavior problems. I guess it is only been since I've had on-line access that I have discovered the wonderful array of animals that are available. If you have your heart set on a particular breed or type of dog, the search is an exciting part of the process. I guess my suggestion would be to talk to your husband about what his specific concerns are about getting a rescue or shelter dog. Once you know what his frame of reference is, you might be able to provide information to alleviate those concerns. Let's be honest, one can get a dog that can be a real challenge, but that dog is just as likely to be one you pick out as a puppy as it is a shelter dog. I don't fault anyone who wants to raise a puppy, because I have been there. I just want people to know that the rewards of doing it the other way are unbelievable and the concerns are often unfounded.