I've decided, after not sleeping very well last night, that I'm going to say nothing to her. I saw her this morning and she was so sweet to me, wishing me a Happy Mother's Day. I'm also not going to short myself monetarily. I'm going to pay her $50/week for the next 4 weeks until the bill is paid in full. Then she can't say anything to me. If she asks about Doogie, I'm gonna tell. I'm 50 years old and can do what I damn well please.