I have had 6 Goldens over the past 25 years and no two have been alike. Each has it's own personality and each that has passed is remembered very dearly. I have had strong bonds with all of them and know how having one around when the other passes makes it more bearable because you have to go on taking care, and loving the one that remains. That doesn't lessen the loss you feel, it just helps you to go on with a furbaby to love and cuddle with. I can't imagine life without a dog around.

I agree with Carrie though that only you can determine when the time is right. You need to deal with your grieving in a manner that is bearable for you!

One additional comment... Logan and I share the same thought that the breed is definitely a good choice. I realize that the papers you get don't mean anything special to you, it is the love you are looking for, but you may find that you can work with your new pup and even enter it in competitions for agility, obedience, etc... That is a great hobby for our dogs and also for us. I love going to the dog shows with Dixie and soon with Dusty and sharing some special memories of earning titles and learning together.

Best Wishes in making your decision!!!!