I am with Jen,...who cares? It isn't truly hurting me- maybe my ego, but, not me. I just can't get upset about someone else and their wrongdoings too much. Since you can't totally control it, might as well spend your time/energy on things you can control. I wouldn't want to live my life always thinking, "what if..".

Course, while I think my pets are beautiful, they just don't compare to some others, like Nakita.