Coming back here, I guess I never adressed WHY she can't come in. Sorry about that.

I can't traumatize my cats. It isn't fair to them to disrupt their lives because of Gracie's situation. We've decided that five IS our limit.

I guess my "Adding #6" was misleading. Its her home for now and then we'll see what we can do. I'm willing to get her to the point where she trusts people, we just can't take her in.

There HAS to be some reason she's a 'feral' all by herself. She had to get pregnant somehow, so its strange to me that she's the only one. I wonder if that's her choice...that's something that worries me if I were to even attempt introducing them.

So, bottom line, I don't want our cats effected by this. They've already had to deal with Oliver, they don't deserve to have thier home in an uproar just because "I" wanted to help Gracie.

Does that make sense??