Flying on planes (I had the fear long before 9-11)... I cannot stand it. The longest flight I've ever been on was only around 2 hours and I was a nervous wreck the whole time. Thank goodness my mother hates flying also so when we go on family vacations it's almost always a road trip. Spiders also give me the creeps... I am almost always worried about them being in my bed when I go to sleep at night And public speaking... yikes... that scares me... And of course I would never want to lose someone I love I don't even want to think about that...