I do agree with what KYS and some others have said about
the fight. You did create the situation & dogs are dogs. Kito
would not "apologize", given the same situation, he'd probably
do it all over again. It's not "wrong or bad", it's being a dog.
I would hope your husband wouldn't blame the dog for a human
mistake. I know you've learned from this incident, but I hope
your husband does'nt blame Kito or Abbey. btw, did you mean
to say Kito's neutering cost $200,00 ? Wow, that seems so high.