I don't know the law in other states, but, in Ohio, an underaged child can drink, with his parents, in the home. It used to be they could drink in public, with their parents, and I don't know if that has changed.

As to drinking in general, it is like most other things, ok in moderation. I don't see the reason to avoid alcohol...I drink. I don't overdrink. It doesnt make me a better or worse person...just one that enjoys the taste. Absolutes, as in "I never..." or "People shoudn't ever..." or "all people that do...." are usually inaccurate statements. If you like to drink, do it. If you don't, don't.