Here I am, lol-lol I'm 57 yrs.old been going thru it,mine should be stopping soon I hope.Was on Prem-pro its the pill for the change,but stoppd it cuz they found out now it can cuz heart-attachs,etc. so now I'm having them mostly at night while trying to sleep,Its terrible feeling. Now I'm taking over the counter,pill its a herbal one called ""New Phase"" Its seems to work but not like prem-pro pill I was on. This is suppose to last for 10yrs. I'm in my 8th. Hope you find relief,if you do let me know what your taking.