Oh dear Karen, do take one day at a time and fight, fight, fight. Even when it seems like there is no hope, miracles do happen and things can turn out ok. I know, I've been there. Needless to say, I am thinking about you and Cody constantly and praying for that miracle. Hehehe, I got the "pulling a Killian" message from Pam and it made me smile. How do they do that???