Kelly, I sure hope that everything works out with Oliver but if it doesn't then maybe he was meant to be an only cat. I also hope that you're able to adopt the cute aby Mike. I'm sure he'll be able to learn to trust people since he's still young. My Cirrus is very similar to Mike in that he loves other cats but isn't very trusting of people. He likes to be near me and has finally let me pet his head and also brush him. I talk to him in a soothing voice and he seems to really enjoy this. I know that some day he'll become as friendly as Storm and Sunny are to me. Good luck.