Some Abys like Miley are a little distant with other cats. Abys and Somalis are very active and playful cats. Filou is now seven years old and he's still jumping and running much more than Tigris. So you do not absolutely need and old lady for Holly And you cannot expect her to be a doiley.

Some like Graemer are very social -you remember how he welcomed Gabe. It is more the individual character than the breed.

Whoever has been owned by an Aby loves their affectionate style -they really love their humans. This must not mean that they are lap cats. Filou isn't but when he comes and says it's time for headbumpies I immediately stop what I'm doing....

The picture shows classical behavior of an Aby and his human: