I wish I knew the easy answer. Mimi is like Emily, and just decided, very early on in her life, that she should be an only cat. Well, she's not an only cat now, because Butter has been with us for more than two years. And she still can't tolerate him! The best thing is that they can coexist, finally, and they just stay out of each other's ways. I just get a little sad when I see the precious cuddling pictures that our other members post, and I know I will never have pictures like that with these two.

I hope it will work out for you, eventually, but as long as they aren't trying to kill each other, I guess it is a good thing!