I actually feed them in the same room (with separate dishes). They usually eat their own wet food, but the dry food always tastes better from the other guys dish .

Once Emily is asleep the three of us can share the bed without any problems. Sometimes we can even sit on the couch together (but not all the time).

I keep thinking that since there has been only a limited amount of fur flying and no blood, maybe it will improve with time... (one can only hope )