I would recommend a golden. yes, I realize the risk of an early death, but the time in between is so fulfilling!!!! You never know how long you will have any dog. Get one you really want no matter what. I do also agree with going to an animal shelter. I would recommend reading a story from http://www.funnyjunk.com. GO down to the H storys and the story is called "How could you" The story isn't funy, but it will make you want to go find the dog that is about to be put to sleep and recuse it.