Robyn, the one trick that I used when getting my three to play, was to drag out the old fishing pole with the mouse attached. They would take turns attacking it and it seemed to allow them all the room to share and play at the same time. Just a suggestion. You may not need to do anything. My experience is that female cats are less likely to "share" and that the male cats have an "anything goes" attitude. Of course, each kitty is different, as we all well know!

I wish you only happiness and good health with Guinness Patrick and of course Ms. Dandy girl.

Maybe, once Dandy sees how Guinness is being so friendly with Christian, she will do the same. One friendly cat can really influence the others....you know how Graemer changed Gabe so. We won't go there - still too sad and this is an oh so happy time.

I can't wait for a photo of both kitties together!

Now, you have to promise me that if you get another cat that you will name it "Magic Hat" after the local brewery here in Burlington!

Love and only good wishes for you and your family!

Sas and Miley

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