Jen
that's interesting, thanks for replying. have you always fed them in separate rooms? that is a good idea, and one that would be well worth the effort, it will be an effort to change their habbits, but I am going to try it. I have been thinking it would be good for Louise anyway, because every day when they eat their canned food, she eats fast, then leaves, alot of the time not finishing her food then a while later seems to want more, I don't think she likes eating with the group. the boys are such piggies! but Charlie never gets fat!
thanks for your help!

so, do you close the door, or they each just go to their own areas when it is food time?