I can't really understand what you've typed so far tikeyas_mom, but my suggestion to you is to go to a shelter almost every week and check out the animals they have there. One day one will pop up that will fit you, your current dog, and your family. They normally allow to bring your current animal in to see if they get along,which is what you should do. I don't think the description of the "perfect breed" you have said is available, anywhere. Nothing is perfect and nothing can become perfect. Try what i've auggested. I go to the shelter near me atleast 3 times a week, hoping to find the one thay my parents will fall in love with.