My baby Bun girl, Jillian, didn't like to be picked up. I would definitly wait for a couple of days to a week to pick her up and hold her. I know the one of the ways me and Jillian bonded was by me sitting on the floor and feeding her things like Raisons. Now she runs circles around me trying ot get my attention. She follows me from room to room. I was able to clicker train her, teach her her name and I was able to teac her In your room where she goes back into my room and the only way I could have acomplishished all of this was to have the bond we have, definitly take it slow.

Ash