Why don't you block the person from your AIM list and delete him/her from the list? I'm sorry someone is being so mean to you. Personally, I use MSN (mainly because it uses email addresses so I don't accept anyone who's address I don't know) and I like MSN messenger WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY better than AOL. I only accept very close friends and relatives on my chat list. No one else. I don't chat with unknown people or people I don't like. I advise you to do the same.