Originally posted by wolfsoul
i believe that ppl here should support her choice, not make this harder for her...some of the words i read here are very harsh and cruel, and it makes me sad to think how it would be if i had to make an important decision and ask for some advice....im not trying to start anything, but in my experience, the more u try to convince someone of not doing something, the more determined they r to convince u that it needs to be done....and if she says it needs to be done, then im pretty sure it has to be done....no, i dont like hearing about animals being put to sleep, but an unpredictable dog is not a good idea to have around ppl....putting him down while u have a choice is better than being forced to put him down later when he truly harms someone and bad things happen...if this is her choice, then i will support her and give her my condolences
im glad that ppl r trying to help, it is really nice of u...keep giving advice, but if u r going to be critical, im just not going to put up with it

BUT, I ask you, were you around for the first time we went through this with her? I agree, in principle, that we should be supportive of others decisions...esp., when they are as difficult as this one is. I just don't believe her. If you go back and read the December post, it is the SAME thing all over again. I am not necessarily critical of her decision to put him down, if that is warranted. But, I am critical of someone yanking my chain, time and again.