I have a feeling this is going to end up like when everyone attacked Angel for putting her dog in the pound., Someones feelings are going to end up hurt, someone going to leave and then there will be another hole in pet talk. Lets just focus on Chewy and the good for Chewy. I myself think you should take Molly and Mike's offer. They are good people, and so are you. Maybe they can help. Maybe they have something more to offer than you have. Give it a try. and who knows, maybe Chewy will get over all of this.