We try to keep things fair, but not necessarily "even" between Kobie and Eli. For instance, when we get Eli a new frisbee, we also get Kobie something she'll like (rope toy or similar chew item). The two dogs are so different in their interests that it's just not fair to give them the exact same things, but we do try not to leave either of them out when gifts are being given! We hung a stocking for each of them, too--identical except that Kobie's is green with red trim and Eli's is red with green trim...