silly Richard!!!!

Yeah....since I spent time writing my response...I think I'll post it anyway!

I am CBC....childless by choice. Many of you have made the points I would on this...it is a HUGE decision that should be made with great deliberateness and thought. All too often it is an accident, or because everyone else is doing it, etc. I knew it wasn't for me a long time ago.

During my "dating years" I was always upfront about that so not to waste anyone's time. And it ran some men off.

To be a good parent requires a level of selflessness that I am not sure I am willing or able to achieve.

But here's my question...what with "Do you want to hold the baby?" Frankly, no. It makes me nervous. (and....I have changed one diaper and that was enough!)

And one more thing....I do NOT think it is cute when your child runs into me while you are paying absolutely NO attention to him/her and snatching food from my plate in a restaurant is simply uncivilized.