Maybe this whole thing was exactly what was supposed to happen. You know, "Kelly" wanted to go to these two other schools, so "Kelly" planned it all out...not really paying attention to what His plan was. So, you finally came around, and now you find peace.
I went to a Quaker college...funny, we were called the ("Fighting Quakers"), and while I did not participate in the religious aspect of the college, the large majority of the professors were Quakers, and it showed through. It was a great place to be. I don't think you need to go to a religious school to find the things you want to learn. I would think most major universities have religiously based psych courses???
Good luck!
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