Is this a good thing or a bad thing?

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And our hearts as well are heavy for Karen (Wolflady) who lost her beloved kitty Socks to diabetes last week. The hardest part is not being able to comfort our friends personally in their time of grief and loss. Yes, it is very hard at times when we learn our dear friends have lost their beloved furkids; it's like losing one of my own. But, a true friend is one who is there not only during the happy times, but during the hardest times, as well. As the song says, "He ain't heavy, he's my brother." My heart is aching for all members of our Pet Talk family who are dealing with the heartache of an ailing or lost furkid