I have recently gone through all of this with my Ripley. I had to wait for 7 days to see if he was claimed and then of course if my application was accepted, so I know the feeling! I think this part of your post sort of points out that she picked you!

I think the tie breaker was when Brian squatted down and called her to him, she went right over to him, jumped up on his knee and licked his chin. She hadn't been that affectionate up till that point cause I think she was just a little freaked out by the number of people at the adoption fair, plus it was pretty cold outside.

That is how it was with Ripley. He came right over and sat in my lap and gave me a kiss. It was a done deal right there! Good luck and keep us posted. She sure is a cutie pie!