I forgot to say - it took awhile to get to this point. It took Bo 3-4 years to be brave enough to join us in the dog part of the house, Abby was a little braver but it still too a year or so. Hanna has been the bravest, she didn't hesitate at all, but then again she's not afraid of much. Be patient is my advice, and it will happen. No one here outright hates anyone else, I guess I'm lucky in that regard.