Yes to most of those items! I usec to refer to my parents as thier Grandparents , which did not pleaes them , particulalry my Father!Now that they have passes on , I refer to my brother and sister in law as thier Aunt and Uncle, again not appreciated . I get them the premiunm food , as they generally have rebates so the food isnt as expensive. and Cat toys! They have so many that they get spoiled and i have to give them away! Catmandu