What a cute question? I think if an actress were to play my Maddie it would have to be Joan Cusak. She is a total spaz with a great face and you can't help but love her!
As for Sasha, I think it would be Wynonna Ryder. She can be very timid (like Wynonna in "Girl Interrupted) but can also be tough and stand up for her self and be playful.
Lexi is the tough one...Guess I would say, Meryl Streep. She is the rock of the family. Like the boss... she can be tough, weak, she is beautiful, strong, loyal and smart.
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