Donna, I guess it is the lady of whom we heard already?
It is difficult for me to understand that having a dog and knowing she couldn't give him up for a baby she doesn't understand that there are other people for whom their cat or rat or birdie is just the same.

A friend of mine had 4 budgies (now 3 -one died) and when she had her baby her husband would have preferred if the budgies had not been there somehow but finally he accepted because she said she had taken responsability for them...
Ok she has 2 children now and everything is purrfect.

I also have problems to understand that she says she loves her dog and does not properly walk and train him. Dogs want and need training and need to move.

But don't talk to her too often -it gives you bad feelings. Come here. This website is full of the very best vibes