P.s. Thanks for bearing with me but, the truth is, just before I left for my brother Grants celebration of life.. I didn't think I could bear it. I was dressed in traditional black and trying to get myself together. I knew that I needed to be strong and that my family would be there. I felt like crying so I thought I would just go stand on the balcony,deep breathe and look at the beautiful trees. I saw an exotic parrot. It was exquisite, we live in Canada, B.C. We don't have wild parrots, it was bright orange, red and green. I saw this beauty for a few seconds and then it flew away. It sure felt like a sign from my brother, he was a very flamboyant man inside and it definately helped me through the day. The service was beautiful and I am so grateful I went. Seemed like I received what I needed at the very last second. 💕🌹❤️