There are probably 1000 reasons why you didn't get the job. Maybe, if you even look close enough, the job didn't get you! Too often we focus (and give up power to) things that aren't in our control. So, you walk into a job interview feeling lesser powered than the person on the other end, and for some reason, you accept his/her decision as some validation as to who/what you are, things 'hurt' more than they actually matter.


So, next interview, go in knowing it is a 50/50 relationship...can YOU work THERE, do THEY offer what YOU want/need. Then, you retain the power, or control feeling, and the decision is less about YOU and more about US, and is it a good match.

Easy for me to say, I know, but, as someone else said, something better will present itself..Good luck.